• Re: Planning for when can't do DIY

    From Tim+@21:1/5 to AnthonyL on Sun Mar 16 13:41:16 2025
    AnthonyL <[email protected]d> wrote:
    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?



    Training my children and son-in-law. ;-)

    Tim

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  • From David@21:1/5 to AnthonyL on Sun Mar 16 13:46:15 2025
    On Sun, 16 Mar 2025 13:33:01 +0000, AnthonyL wrote:

    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces around
    the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not going to
    be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    Find a non-DIY friend who has to employ someone to do everything for them.
    Then approach said fixer to see if they can do stuff for you as well.

    I am part way down this route because I don't bend enough to get into
    corners and fiddly bits.
    My upper body strength is way down as well.

    It will happen to most of us eventually.

    Cheers


    Dave R



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  • From Andrew@21:1/5 to AnthonyL on Sun Mar 16 13:46:28 2025
    On 16/03/2025 13:33, AnthonyL wrote:
    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?



    Decide what needs to be 'fixed' and what can be safely ignored
    (or fixed by buying a new one). If something needs regular
    attention, like tap washers, ?replace the entire tap now

    I get regular local booklets where close-by tradesmen advertise,
    and some places have 'repair cafes' where you might be able to
    find some useful contact details.

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  • From RJH@21:1/5 to AnthonyL on Sun Mar 16 14:15:11 2025
    On 16 Mar 2025 at 13:33:01 GMT, AnthonyL wrote:

    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    I reckon/hope I have another 10 years of reasonable mobility left before I
    need to think of such things. And my plan as I sit here now is, come the time, to move to a low maintenance house. New build or similar. Or, and this is extreme, a flat.

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  • From AnthonyL@21:1/5 to All on Sun Mar 16 13:33:01 2025
    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?


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  • From alan_m@21:1/5 to AnthonyL on Sun Mar 16 15:23:32 2025
    On 16/03/2025 13:33, AnthonyL wrote:
    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?



    Is there a LOCAL facebook group? Where I live there is a group just for
    the town and asking on that usually results in recommendations but the
    group is mainly about what's happenings locally and for some strange
    reason a lot of local photos all with the same of similar subject
    matter. Where friends live in a rural area the group seems to work a lot better. When recommendations are requested many dozens of people will
    suggest 2 or 3 local tradesmen who will do the jobs.

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  • From David@21:1/5 to AnthonyL on Sun Mar 16 15:48:53 2025
    On 16/03/2025 13:33, AnthonyL wrote:
    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?


    Age UK have (or had) lists of people who would assist the elderly and
    repair items at fair prices.

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  • From SteveW@21:1/5 to David on Sun Mar 16 21:39:57 2025
    On 16/03/2025 13:46, David wrote:
    On Sun, 16 Mar 2025 13:33:01 +0000, AnthonyL wrote:

    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces around
    the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not going to
    be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    Find a non-DIY friend who has to employ someone to do everything for them. Then approach said fixer to see if they can do stuff for you as well.

    I am part way down this route because I don't bend enough to get into
    corners and fiddly bits.
    My upper body strength is way down as well.

    It will happen to most of us eventually.

    My knees are shot, so it can be painful to do some things, but I can
    still do them and just suffer. Children are useful for sending to crawl
    under the floor!

    My mother has recently banned my father from working up extension
    ladders, in case he has a dizzy spell, but he's still allowed to use the scaffold tower. He's 87. His main problem is a tremor, so it's an effort
    to get a screwdriver lined up on a screw - although he's ambidextrous
    and has less of a tremor in his left hand.

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  • From Marland@21:1/5 to RJH on Mon Mar 17 08:35:11 2025
    RJH <[email protected]> wrote:
    On 16 Mar 2025 at 13:33:01 GMT, AnthonyL wrote:

    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    I reckon/hope I have another 10 years of reasonable mobility left before I need to think of such things. And my plan as I sit here now is, come the time,
    to move to a low maintenance house. New build or similar. Or, and this is extreme, a flat.


    My Mother moved in as a second owner on an 18 month old house for just
    that reason ,14 years on things mainly on the plumbing side have shown weaknesses . Plastic microbore on the CH has started to weep at radiator connections and one leaked so badly it badly damaged the the ceilings of
    and walls of two downstairs rooms, as a 95 with limited mobility she
    doesn’t enter some spare bedrooms for days and hadn’t noticed the leak. The pleasant looking bathroom fittings looked nice with toilet wastes
    nicely boxed in but when one leaked the panelling got ruined and getting it replaced would be another expense to add on so it is waiting for my brother
    who is a builder to do it,except he is always too busy. I live 200 miles
    away so it isn’t practical for me.

    New techniques lets builders put them up quicker but a lot depends on how
    good the installers are.

    GH
    GH

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  • From Theo@21:1/5 to Marland on Mon Mar 17 10:27:28 2025
    Marland <[email protected]> wrote:
    New techniques lets builders put them up quicker but a lot depends on how good the installers are.

    Who was the housebuilder, OOI? I don't know if there's a difference between small-scale local builders and volume tract-builders. Maybe infill new
    build is better than new estates?

    Theo

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  • From Marland@21:1/5 to Theo on Mon Mar 17 12:40:49 2025
    Theo <[email protected]> wrote:
    Marland <[email protected]> wrote:
    New techniques lets builders put them up quicker but a lot depends on how
    good the installers are.

    Who was the housebuilder, OOI? I don't know if there's a difference between small-scale local builders and volume tract-builders. Maybe infill new
    build is better than new estates?

    Theo

    Midas homes, reasonably large but mainly based in the Southwest.
    They seem to have been wound up in 2022/23 leaving some unfinished
    projects.

    The house and its neighbours look quite presentable but the first thing I noticed was the noise when somebody walks around upstairs , the floors
    just seem to shake and squeak compared to older houses. The plastic
    microbore actually looks very tidy as it comes out of the walls with only a couple of inches to the radiator connections, trouble is if you want to
    check the small weeps that developed there was no play at all without
    digging into the wall.

    GH

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  • From Jeff Gaines@21:1/5 to RJH on Mon Mar 17 14:17:58 2025
    On 16/03/2025 in message <vr6mdf$1ufbf$[email protected]> RJH wrote:

    On 16 Mar 2025 at 13:33:01 GMT, AnthonyL wrote:

    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    I reckon/hope I have another 10 years of reasonable mobility left before I >need to think of such things. And my plan as I sit here now is, come the >time,
    to move to a low maintenance house. New build or similar. Or, and this is >extreme, a flat.

    From personal experience do not, under any circumstances, ever buy a
    leasehold property, especially one on a so called retirement estate, you
    would be better off sleeping in a cardboard box in the local rec.

    Landlords are pretty grim anyway, retirement development landlords
    especially seem to regard older people as fair game.

    --
    Jeff Gaines Dorset UK
    I've been through the desert on a horse with no name.
    It was a right bugger to get him back when he ran off.

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  • From Jeff Gaines@21:1/5 to SteveW on Mon Mar 17 16:03:34 2025
    On 17/03/2025 in message <vr9ees$cic4$[email protected]> SteveW wrote:

    I reckon/hope I have another 10 years of reasonable mobility left before
    I
    need to think of such things. And my plan as I sit here now is, come the >>>time,
    to move to a low maintenance house. New build or similar. Or, and this is >>>extreme, a flat.

    From personal experience do not, under any circumstances, ever buy a >>leasehold property, especially one on a so called retirement estate, you >>would be better off sleeping in a cardboard box in the local rec.

    My home is leasehold, but it all depends on the terms. In my case, the
    ground rent is fixed at £3.75 every 6 months; the terms specifically
    state that I can build or demolish what I want, with no requirement to ask >permission or pay a fee; the ONLY restrictions are that I keep the
    boundaries marked (with fence, wall or hedge) and that I keep a building
    on the land that is capable of attracting a specified minimum annual
    rental value ... but as that was set in the 1930s, my garden shed easily >covers that! The lease has 909 years to run, so no problems there.

    With retirement estates the landlord remains responsible for property maintenance, most flats are the same, sounds like you may have a leasehold house?

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    We chose to do this not because it is easy but because we thought it would
    be easy.

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  • From SteveW@21:1/5 to Jeff Gaines on Mon Mar 17 15:17:37 2025
    On 17/03/2025 14:17, Jeff Gaines wrote:
    On 16/03/2025 in message <vr6mdf$1ufbf$[email protected]> RJH wrote:

    On 16 Mar 2025 at 13:33:01 GMT, AnthonyL wrote:

    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house.  SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs?  Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion?  That's a bit painful.  Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    I reckon/hope I have another 10 years of reasonable mobility left
    before I
    need to think of such things. And my plan as I sit here now is, come
    the time,
    to move to a low maintenance house. New build or similar. Or, and this is
    extreme, a flat.

    From personal experience do not, under any circumstances, ever buy a leasehold property, especially one on a so called retirement estate, you would be better off sleeping in a cardboard box in the local rec.

    My home is leasehold, but it all depends on the terms. In my case, the
    ground rent is fixed at £3.75 every 6 months; the terms specifically
    state that I can build or demolish what I want, with no requirement to
    ask permission or pay a fee; the ONLY restrictions are that I keep the boundaries marked (with fence, wall or hedge) and that I keep a building
    on the land that is capable of attracting a specified minimum annual
    rental value ... but as that was set in the 1930s, my garden shed easily
    covers that! The lease has 909 years to run, so no problems there.

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  • From Adrian@21:1/5 to [email protected] on Mon Mar 17 16:19:04 2025
    In message <[email protected]>, Jeff Gaines <[email protected]> writes
    With retirement estates the landlord remains responsible for property >maintenance, most flats are the same, sounds like you may have a
    leasehold house?


    Ex-leasehold flat owner here.

    The lease I had specified that I was responsible for repairs to the
    interior of the flat, but the free holder was responsible for the
    exterior. The windows were defined as being part of the exterior.

    That came in handy when I had double glazing people cold call, asking if
    I'd like a quote. They were rather confused when I told them that I
    didn't have any windows.

    Adrian
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  • From Bernard Peek@21:1/5 to AnthonyL on Mon Mar 17 18:37:25 2025
    On 2025-03-16, AnthonyL <[email protected]d> wrote:
    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    The charity Age UK has a 'handy person' service that can handle some stuff. They fitted grab-handles for our bath, a second bannister and a handrail for the front steps.



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  • From AnthonyL@21:1/5 to All on Mon Mar 17 19:06:56 2025
    On Sun, 16 Mar 2025 15:23:32 +0000, alan_m <[email protected]>
    wrote:

    On 16/03/2025 13:33, AnthonyL wrote:
    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?



    Is there a LOCAL facebook group? Where I live there is a group just for
    the town and asking on that usually results in recommendations but the
    group is mainly about what's happenings locally and for some strange
    reason a lot of local photos all with the same of similar subject
    matter. Where friends live in a rural area the group seems to work a lot >better. When recommendations are requested many dozens of people will
    suggest 2 or 3 local tradesmen who will do the jobs.


    I suspect that the 2 or 3 local tradesmen are self-recommending or the
    names are put forward by family/friends rather than satisfied
    customers. It's a cynical world we live in.


    --
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    Why ever wait to finish a job before starting the next?

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  • From AnthonyL@21:1/5 to David on Mon Mar 17 19:09:28 2025
    On Sun, 16 Mar 2025 15:48:53 +0000, David <[email protected]> wrote:

    On 16/03/2025 13:33, AnthonyL wrote:
    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?


    Age UK have (or had) lists of people who would assist the elderly and
    repair items at fair prices.

    Good call, thanks.

    See
    https://www.ageuk.org.uk/about-us/what-we-do/age-uk-business-directory/



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  • From AnthonyL@21:1/5 to All on Mon Mar 17 19:11:35 2025
    On Sun, 16 Mar 2025 14:15:11 -0000 (UTC), RJH <[email protected]>
    wrote:

    On 16 Mar 2025 at 13:33:01 GMT, AnthonyL wrote:

    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    I reckon/hope I have another 10 years of reasonable mobility left before I >need to think of such things. And my plan as I sit here now is, come the time, >to move to a low maintenance house. New build or similar. Or, and this is >extreme, a flat.


    I have had a couple of very active friends who have woken up in the
    morning, complained to their wives of back-ache and died on the spot
    of a heart attack.

    In both cases their wives had little idea of what to do with the
    computers, finances and certainly not fixing dripping taps and
    overflowing toilets.

    I'm wondering whether just to get people in on jobs I could have
    managed just to be able to assess them and put them on an "emergency
    list" for my wife and I.


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  • From RJH@21:1/5 to Jeff Gaines on Mon Mar 17 20:07:17 2025
    On 17 Mar 2025 at 16:03:34 GMT, "Jeff Gaines" wrote:

    On 17/03/2025 in message <vr9ees$cic4$[email protected]> SteveW wrote:

    I reckon/hope I have another 10 years of reasonable mobility left before >>> I
    need to think of such things. And my plan as I sit here now is, come the >>>> time,
    to move to a low maintenance house. New build or similar. Or, and this is >>>> extreme, a flat.

    From personal experience do not, under any circumstances, ever buy a
    leasehold property, especially one on a so called retirement estate, you >>> would be better off sleeping in a cardboard box in the local rec.

    My home is leasehold, but it all depends on the terms. In my case, the
    ground rent is fixed at £3.75 every 6 months; the terms specifically
    state that I can build or demolish what I want, with no requirement to ask >> permission or pay a fee; the ONLY restrictions are that I keep the
    boundaries marked (with fence, wall or hedge) and that I keep a building
    on the land that is capable of attracting a specified minimum annual
    rental value ... but as that was set in the 1930s, my garden shed easily
    covers that! The lease has 909 years to run, so no problems there.

    With retirement estates the landlord remains responsible for property maintenance, most flats are the same, sounds like you may have a leasehold house?

    Just come from seeing a friend who has just sold his late mother's L/H flat - one in a block of 42, major retirement landlords with a 24hr warden on site. Bought around 2015 for £180,000, 2 bed in a nice part of Sheffield.

    Agreed to sell for £40,000 2 months ago. Reduced the day before exchange to £30,000 as the service charge increased 25% to £8,000pa. That doesn't include utilities, but should include maintenance - which didn't stop an ad hoc charge a few years ago for lift repairs.

    Moral in there somewhere . . .

    --
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  • From alan_m@21:1/5 to AnthonyL on Tue Mar 18 04:33:08 2025
    On 17/03/2025 19:06, AnthonyL wrote:
    On Sun, 16 Mar 2025 15:23:32 +0000, alan_m <[email protected]>
    wrote:

    On 16/03/2025 13:33, AnthonyL wrote:
    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?



    Is there a LOCAL facebook group? Where I live there is a group just for
    the town and asking on that usually results in recommendations but the
    group is mainly about what's happenings locally and for some strange
    reason a lot of local photos all with the same of similar subject
    matter. Where friends live in a rural area the group seems to work a lot
    better. When recommendations are requested many dozens of people will
    suggest 2 or 3 local tradesmen who will do the jobs.


    I suspect that the 2 or 3 local tradesmen are self-recommending or the
    names are put forward by family/friends rather than satisfied
    customers. It's a cynical world we live in.



    I would be a bit cynical in my area but where my friends live they have
    taken up the recommendations and have found the tradesmen to be good.
    However, they also have the advantage of having neighbours that have
    lived in the same hamlet for 70+ years and the same re-occurring names
    are also recommended by them.




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  • From Tricky Dicky@21:1/5 to Jeff Gaines on Tue Mar 18 11:53:19 2025
    Jeff Gaines <[email protected]> wrote:
    On 16/03/2025 in message <vr6mdf$1ufbf$[email protected]> RJH wrote:

    On 16 Mar 2025 at 13:33:01 GMT, AnthonyL wrote:

    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    I reckon/hope I have another 10 years of reasonable mobility left before I >> need to think of such things. And my plan as I sit here now is, come the
    time,
    to move to a low maintenance house. New build or similar. Or, and this is
    extreme, a flat.

    From personal experience do not, under any circumstances, ever buy a leasehold property, especially one on a so called retirement estate, you would be better off sleeping in a cardboard box in the local rec.

    Landlords are pretty grim anyway, retirement development landlords
    especially seem to regard older people as fair game.


    +1

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  • From Tricky Dicky@21:1/5 to SteveW on Tue Mar 18 11:59:14 2025
    SteveW <[email protected]> wrote:
    On 17/03/2025 14:17, Jeff Gaines wrote:
    On 16/03/2025 in message <vr6mdf$1ufbf$[email protected]> RJH wrote:

    On 16 Mar 2025 at 13:33:01 GMT, AnthonyL wrote:

    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house.  SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not >>>> going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs?  Hunt around >>>> for a specialist on each occasion?  That's a bit painful.  Not sure I >>>> rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    I reckon/hope I have another 10 years of reasonable mobility left
    before I
    need to think of such things. And my plan as I sit here now is, come
    the time,
    to move to a low maintenance house. New build or similar. Or, and this is >>> extreme, a flat.

    From personal experience do not, under any circumstances, ever buy a
    leasehold property, especially one on a so called retirement estate, you
    would be better off sleeping in a cardboard box in the local rec.

    My home is leasehold, but it all depends on the terms. In my case, the
    ground rent is fixed at £3.75 every 6 months; the terms specifically
    state that I can build or demolish what I want, with no requirement to
    ask permission or pay a fee; the ONLY restrictions are that I keep the boundaries marked (with fence, wall or hedge) and that I keep a building
    on the land that is capable of attracting a specified minimum annual
    rental value ... but as that was set in the 1930s, my garden shed easily covers that! The lease has 909 years to run, so no problems there.


    Our first house was leasehold with a ground rent of £15 per annum. We were able to buyout the freehold by paying 10 X the ground rent. I do not know
    if that is still available as it was 1976 but very worthwhile doing so if possible and not too expensive. At the time mortgage providers were quite
    happy to extend a mortgage to cover the cost of freehold buyout.

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  • From SteveW@21:1/5 to Tricky Dicky on Tue Mar 18 12:04:35 2025
    On 18/03/2025 11:59, Tricky Dicky wrote:
    SteveW <[email protected]> wrote:
    On 17/03/2025 14:17, Jeff Gaines wrote:
    On 16/03/2025 in message <vr6mdf$1ufbf$[email protected]> RJH wrote:

    On 16 Mar 2025 at 13:33:01 GMT, AnthonyL wrote:

    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house.  SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not >>>>> going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs?  Hunt around >>>>> for a specialist on each occasion?  That's a bit painful.  Not sure I >>>>> rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    I reckon/hope I have another 10 years of reasonable mobility left
    before I
    need to think of such things. And my plan as I sit here now is, come
    the time,
    to move to a low maintenance house. New build or similar. Or, and this is >>>> extreme, a flat.

    From personal experience do not, under any circumstances, ever buy a
    leasehold property, especially one on a so called retirement estate, you >>> would be better off sleeping in a cardboard box in the local rec.

    My home is leasehold, but it all depends on the terms. In my case, the
    ground rent is fixed at £3.75 every 6 months; the terms specifically
    state that I can build or demolish what I want, with no requirement to
    ask permission or pay a fee; the ONLY restrictions are that I keep the
    boundaries marked (with fence, wall or hedge) and that I keep a building
    on the land that is capable of attracting a specified minimum annual
    rental value ... but as that was set in the 1930s, my garden shed easily
    covers that! The lease has 909 years to run, so no problems there.


    Our first house was leasehold with a ground rent of £15 per annum. We were able to buyout the freehold by paying 10 X the ground rent. I do not know
    if that is still available as it was 1976 but very worthwhile doing so if possible and not too expensive. At the time mortgage providers were quite happy to extend a mortgage to cover the cost of freehold buyout.

    I've just never got around to doing it as, other than the very low
    payments, it has zero effect on me.

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  • From Harry Bloomfield Esq@21:1/5 to AnthonyL on Tue Mar 18 15:53:11 2025
    On 16/03/2025 13:33, AnthonyL wrote:
    As I get older I find I'm making mistakes fixing bits and pieces
    around the house. SWMBO is not practically minded at all and I'm not
    going to be around for ever either.

    So the question is who to use to do all those small jobs? Hunt around
    for a specialist on each occasion? That's a bit painful. Not sure I
    rate any of my neighbours' recommendations.

    Do you have a plan you can share?

    My concern too, especially with so much tech in the house. I am slowly
    training SWMBO to at least know how to operate things, and to have some
    basic understanding of how they work.

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  • From Theo@21:1/5 to SteveW on Tue Mar 18 16:05:15 2025
    SteveW <[email protected]> wrote:
    I've just never got around to doing it as, other than the very low
    payments, it has zero effect on me.

    Could be worth it when you come to sell. I suspect 'leasehold house' is
    going to put off a good chunk of buyers, especially since recent
    shenanigans. Often estate agents are terrible at explaining what the T&C of
    a leasehold are, and so buyers will assume the worst.

    Theo

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  • From Thomas Prufer@21:1/5 to AnthonyL on Sat Mar 22 10:23:40 2025
    On Mon, 17 Mar 2025 19:11:35 GMT, [email protected]d (AnthonyL) wrote:

    I'm wondering whether just to get people in on jobs I could have
    managed just to be able to assess them and put them on an "emergency
    list" for my wife and I.

    Many years ago, a gentleman cultivated me as a handyman. I was 12 or 13 at the time, had basic handyman skills. He was ex-military, colonel, and knew how to lead. Asked if I felt capable of a job, encouraged me, told me how he'd go about
    it, and sometimes we'd go and talk through the job with a salesperson in a store, and I'd give it a shot. I also learned when I was out of my depth, as when the oil in the automobile engine turned to gloop -- water in the sump, turned out to be a broken head gasket.

    I was paid very well, I thought, and it was still very much less than any tradesmen! It was the equivalent of a full tank of gasoline in large car.

    It was mutually beneficial: I was flush with money. I learned skills I still use
    today, and he got a lot done, fixed and repaired, mowed, scarified, painted, oil-changed etc. (I recall noting a very slight leak in a straight pipe run, well before it caused any problems. I asked him to drive me to the store, we got
    a pipe repair clamp, I put it on tight, done. Lasted for years...)

    So maybe you can find some willing young person, and train them?


    Thomas Prufer

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