• alternative spouse surname in marriage index?

    From J. P. Gilliver@21:1/5 to All on Thu Sep 14 22:12:15 2023
    I'm looking at the 1942Q2 marriage index page - page 363, MAT.

    It covers only surname Matthews - from Alice to Joan B.

    There are two George A. Matthews; one is fine - he married a Taylor, in Mansfield, 7b 333.

    But the second one is very strange:

    -- George Williams St.Helens 8 b 1692
    -- George A. Taylor Mansfield 7 b 333
    -- George A. Digby or Norwich Outer 4 b 413
    Laurence
    -- George E. Pearson Upper Agbrigg 9 a 1117

    I've never seen an "or" like that before; anyone know what's going on?

    Looking for 1942Q2 4b 413, I find "Lawrence Elfrida H. R." and "Digby
    Elfrida H. R.", both "Matthews Norwich Outer 4 b 413". _Very_ odd!

    (Yes, the George A. says [or] Laurence with a u, the Elfrida Lawrence
    with a w.)

    (I can't find a George Matthews to Elfrida marriage in marriage records,
    but there _was_ a war on so such records may have got lost.)
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  • From Renee McNeely@21:1/5 to J. P. Gilliver on Thu Sep 14 18:47:29 2023
    I'm not familiar with the British marriage records, but is it possible
    that it could be an instance of someone using an alternative or middle
    name? Can you find further information for either person, such as birth
    or death dates?

    On 2023-09-14 17:12, J. P. Gilliver wrote:
    I'm looking at the 1942Q2 marriage index page - page 363, MAT.

    It covers only surname Matthews - from Alice to Joan B.

    There are two George A. Matthews; one is fine - he married a Taylor, in Mansfield, 7b 333.

    But the second one is very strange:

    -- George           Williams    St.Helens     8 b  1692
    -- George A.        Taylor      Mansfield     7 b   333
    -- George A.        Digby or    Norwich Outer 4 b   413
                          Laurence
    -- George E.        Pearson     Upper Agbrigg 9 a  1117

    I've never seen an "or" like that before; anyone know what's going on?

    Looking for 1942Q2 4b 413, I find "Lawrence Elfrida H. R." and "Digby
    Elfrida H. R.", both "Matthews Norwich Outer 4 b   413". _Very_ odd!

    (Yes, the George A. says [or] Laurence with a u, the Elfrida Lawrence
    with a w.)

    (I can't find a George Matthews to Elfrida marriage in marriage records,
    but there _was_ a war on so such records may have got lost.)

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  • From Charles Ellson@21:1/5 to [email protected] on Fri Sep 15 04:58:32 2023
    On Thu, 14 Sep 2023 22:12:15 +0100, "J. P. Gilliver"
    <[email protected]> wrote:

    I'm looking at the 1942Q2 marriage index page - page 363, MAT.

    It covers only surname Matthews - from Alice to Joan B.

    There are two George A. Matthews; one is fine - he married a Taylor, in >Mansfield, 7b 333.

    But the second one is very strange:

    -- George Williams St.Helens 8 b 1692
    -- George A. Taylor Mansfield 7 b 333
    -- George A. Digby or Norwich Outer 4 b 413
    Laurence
    -- George E. Pearson Upper Agbrigg 9 a 1117

    I've never seen an "or" like that before; anyone know what's going on?

    Usually someone who for various reasons is known by two different
    surnames.
    It can be :-
    - someone whose mother has re-married
    - a child of unmarried parents
    - a previously divorced woman who has reverted to her maiden name
    - someone who has simply adopted another surname
    - a widow of more than one husband
    etc. etc.


    Looking for 1942Q2 4b 413, I find "Lawrence Elfrida H. R." and "Digby
    Elfrida H. R.", both "Matthews Norwich Outer 4 b 413". _Very_ odd!

    (Yes, the George A. says [or] Laurence with a u, the Elfrida Lawrence
    with a w.)

    (I can't find a George Matthews to Elfrida marriage in marriage records,
    but there _was_ a war on so such records may have got lost.)

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  • From john@21:1/5 to All on Fri Sep 15 08:51:16 2023
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  • From Graeme Wall@21:1/5 to J. P. Gilliver on Fri Sep 15 07:55:18 2023
    On 14/09/2023 22:12, J. P. Gilliver wrote:
    I'm looking at the 1942Q2 marriage index page - page 363, MAT.

    It covers only surname Matthews - from Alice to Joan B.

    There are two George A. Matthews; one is fine - he married a Taylor, in Mansfield, 7b 333.

    But the second one is very strange:

    -- George           Williams    St.Helens     8 b  1692
    -- George A.        Taylor      Mansfield     7 b   333
    -- George A.        Digby or    Norwich Outer 4 b   413
                          Laurence
    -- George E.        Pearson     Upper Agbrigg 9 a  1117

    I've never seen an "or" like that before; anyone know what's going on?

    Looking for 1942Q2 4b 413, I find "Lawrence Elfrida H. R." and "Digby
    Elfrida H. R.", both "Matthews Norwich Outer 4 b   413". _Very_ odd!

    (Yes, the George A. says [or] Laurence with a u, the Elfrida Lawrence
    with a w.)

    (I can't find a George Matthews to Elfrida marriage in marriage records,
    but there _was_ a war on so such records may have got lost.)

    Elfrida's widowed/divorced, maiden name is one surname, married name is
    the other. I've found a few like that in my tree. Nominally the first
    name (Digby) is the maiden name but don't count on it.


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  • From john@21:1/5 to All on Fri Sep 15 09:01:11 2023
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  • From J. P. Gilliver@21:1/5 to Renee McNeely on Fri Sep 15 14:00:06 2023
    In message <ue02i1$2sc3n$[email protected]> at Thu, 14 Sep 2023 18:47:29,
    Renee McNeely <[email protected]> writes
    I'm not familiar with the British marriage records, but is it possible
    that it could be an instance of someone using an alternative or middle
    name? Can you find further information for either person, such as birth
    or death dates?

    See later posts, but their son Clive's birth is recorded as MMN Digby.

    On 2023-09-14 17:12, J. P. Gilliver wrote:
    I'm looking at the 1942Q2 marriage index page - page 363, MAT.
    It covers only surname Matthews - from Alice to Joan B.
    []
    -- George A.������� Digby or��� Norwich Outer 4 b�� 413
    ��������������������� Laurence
    []
    --
    J. P. Gilliver. UMRA: 1960/<1985 MB++G()AL-IS-Ch++(p)Ar@T+H+Sh0!:`)DNAf

    If a cluttered desk is characteristic of a cluttered mind, what does an empty desk mean ?

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  • From J. P. Gilliver@21:1/5 to Charles Ellson on Fri Sep 15 14:04:08 2023
    In message <[email protected]> at Fri, 15 Sep
    2023 04:58:32, Charles Ellson <[email protected]> writes
    On Thu, 14 Sep 2023 22:12:15 +0100, "J. P. Gilliver"
    <[email protected]> wrote:

    I'm looking at the 1942Q2 marriage index page - page 363, MAT.
    []
    -- George A. Digby or Norwich Outer 4 b 413
    Laurence
    []
    I've never seen an "or" like that before; anyone know what's going on?

    Usually someone who for various reasons is known by two different
    surnames.
    It can be :-
    - someone whose mother has re-married
    - a child of unmarried parents
    - a previously divorced woman who has reverted to her maiden name
    - someone who has simply adopted another surname
    - a widow of more than one husband
    etc. etc.

    Thanks. From subsequent posts, looks like she was indeed married (to Mr. La?rence) previously.
    []
    I'd just not come across that in the birth index before - usually, she's
    shown with the surname of the first husband (which can be confusing
    where I don't have any knowledge of the first marriage). Maybe, as you
    say, she was still using both names.
    --
    J. P. Gilliver. UMRA: 1960/<1985 MB++G()AL-IS-Ch++(p)Ar@T+H+Sh0!:`)DNAf

    If a cluttered desk is characteristic of a cluttered mind, what does an empty desk mean ?

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  • From J. P. Gilliver@21:1/5 to Graeme Wall on Fri Sep 15 14:21:33 2023
    In message <ue0v4m$34fdh$[email protected]> at Fri, 15 Sep 2023 07:55:18,
    Graeme Wall <[email protected]> writes
    On 14/09/2023 22:12, J. P. Gilliver wrote:
    []
    -- George A.������� Digby or��� Norwich Outer 4 b�� 413
    ��������������������� Laurence
    []
    Elfrida's widowed/divorced, maiden name is one surname, married name is
    the other. I've found a few like that in my tree. Nominally the first
    name (Digby) is the maiden name but don't count on it.

    Thanks. As others have kindly found for me, it wasn't in this case. I'd
    just never seen two like that in the index before; now I have! (The
    people at FreeBMD had problems indexing it too: they did it as if there
    were two Elfridas, one with each surname.)

    --
    J. P. Gilliver. UMRA: 1960/<1985 MB++G()AL-IS-Ch++(p)Ar@T+H+Sh0!:`)DNAf

    If a cluttered desk is characteristic of a cluttered mind, what does an empty desk mean ?

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  • From john@21:1/5 to All on Fri Sep 15 15:52:53 2023
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  • From john@21:1/5 to All on Fri Sep 15 15:41:40 2023
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  • From J. P. Gilliver@21:1/5 to john on Fri Sep 15 14:17:37 2023
    In message <ue0vfm$34li0$[email protected]> at Fri, 15 Sep 2023 09:01:11,
    john <[email protected]> writes
    On 15/09/2023 08:51, john wrote:
    On 14/09/2023 23:12, J. P. Gilliver wrote:
    []
    -- George A.        Digby or    Norwich Outer 4 b   413
                           Laurence
    []
    I've never seen an "or" like that before; anyone know what's going on?
    []
    (I can't find a George Matthews to Elfrida marriage in marriage
    records, but there _was_ a war on so such records may have got lost.)
    Marriages Mar 1922
    DIGBY Charlie J Lawrence Erpingham 4b 105
    LAWRENCE Elfrida H R Digby Erpingham 4b 105
    The 1939 register has Elfrida H Digby updated to Matthews

    Aha! I should have looked at the 1939 - often the source of many
    solutions!

    Not sure what happened to Charlie

    Another ("john" - see below) has said he died in 1971Q4 (actually he
    said Oct, but I presume that means Q4), Wayland district, Norfolk, so presumably they must have divorced.

    There are several full public trees on Ancestry for
    Elfrida Hannah Rose (Ella) Lawrence
    1901–1996
    BIRTH 20 FEB 1901 • Erpingham, Norfolk, England
    DEATH JAN 1996 • Norwich, Norfolk, England
    with
    Charlie J Digby
    1902–1971
    BIRTH 12 APRIL 1902 • Weybourne, Norfolk, England
    DEATH OCT 1971 • Wayland District, Norfolk, England

    Ah. I must learn to look more widely! None of the trees Ancestry pointed
    me to in following the ThruLines link I was following, actually
    mentioned her earlier marriage; I suppose there was no need for them to
    do so, though I myself usually like to record earlier marriages,
    especially where there's a name confusion as here.

    Thanks all!
    --
    J. P. Gilliver. UMRA: 1960/<1985 MB++G()AL-IS-Ch++(p)Ar@T+H+Sh0!:`)DNAf

    If a cluttered desk is characteristic of a cluttered mind, what does an empty desk mean ?

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  • From J. P. Gilliver@21:1/5 to john on Fri Sep 15 15:10:43 2023
    In message <ue1muk$38ulp$[email protected]> at Fri, 15 Sep 2023 15:41:40,
    john <[email protected]> writes
    On 15/09/2023 15:17, J. P. Gilliver wrote:
    In message <ue0vfm$34li0$[email protected]> at Fri, 15 Sep 2023
    09:01:11, john <[email protected]> writes
    On 15/09/2023 08:51, john wrote:
    []
     Marriages Mar 1922
    DIGBY Charlie J Lawrence Erpingham 4b 105
    LAWRENCE Elfrida H R Digby Erpingham 4b 105
    []
    There are several full public trees on Ancestry for
    Elfrida Hannah Rose (Ella) Lawrence
    1901–1996
    []
    with
    Charlie J Digby
    1902–1971
    []
    You could look for a divorce here >https://www.nationalarchives.gov.uk/help-with-your-research/research-gui >des/divorce/

    Thanks for the link.

    But I only did a quick search and didn't find anything.

    Marriages Jun 1943
    Digby Charlie J Freeman Norwich 4b 374
    Freeman May L M A Digby Norwich 4b 374

    Oh, so Charlie remarried too! Just after Elfrida married George Matthews (1942Q2). He obviously had a penchant for wives with lots of forenames!

    (correct in FreeBMD but Ancestry has him as Charlis - perhaps you ought
    to correct it?)

    I ought, but ... (-: (I find Ancestry's correction mechanism
    disheartening, as they never delete a wrong datum, in fact retain it as
    the default, only adding submissions as an alternative, which is not
    always visible.)
    --
    J. P. Gilliver. UMRA: 1960/<1985 MB++G()AL-IS-Ch++(p)Ar@T+H+Sh0!:`)DNAf

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  • From J. P. Gilliver@21:1/5 to john on Fri Sep 15 15:16:49 2023
    In message <ue1njl$38ulp$[email protected]> at Fri, 15 Sep 2023 15:52:53,
    john <[email protected]> writes
    On 15/09/2023 15:21, J. P. Gilliver wrote:
    In message <ue0v4m$34fdh$[email protected]> at Fri, 15 Sep 2023
    07:55:18, Graeme Wall <[email protected]> writes
    On 14/09/2023 22:12, J. P. Gilliver wrote:
    []
    -- George A.������� Digby or��� Norwich Outer 4 b�� 413
    ���������������������� Laurence
    []
    Elfrida's widowed/divorced, maiden name is one surname, married name
    is the other. I've found a few like that in my tree. Nominally the
    []
    (The people at FreeBMD had problems indexing it too: they did it as
    if there were two Elfridas, one with each surname.)



    FreeBMD do not interpret the entries. They just transcribe them as seen >https://www.freebmd.org.uk/FAQ.html#22

    Oh, indeed - I think FMP are the same, only recording what's there, even
    if clearly wrong. However, transcribing the above as if there were two
    Elfridas is a wrinkle I wouldn't have expected. (Maybe they had to to
    enable anyone searching for either to find it, though.)

    However, you can add a Postem to the record, if you think it would be
    helpful to others https://www.freebmd.org.uk/postems-help.html

    I will if I look at it ... actually I will. Hmm, there's a "comment"
    there already - I'll still add a postem.
    --
    J. P. Gilliver. UMRA: 1960/<1985 MB++G()AL-IS-Ch++(p)Ar@T+H+Sh0!:`)DNAf

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