On Fri, 5 Feb 2021 12:28:13 +0000, Jenny M Benson
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On 03/02/2021 18:15, J. P. Gilliver (John) wrote:
OK, not really relevant to here, but someone just tweeted it and I
thought it was fun, so:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=15&v=nCFRoILS1jY&feature=youtu.be
A friend of mine, whose husband is Chinese, didn't find it fun. She
told me her in-law used her inability to grasp it all as yet another >metaphorical stick to beat her with.
If one is brought up with it, it may be useful.
A Spaniard who met most of her English boy-friend's family at a
large event on her first vist to England said that having people
introduced as "my cousin <name>" was much easier in a culture where
surnames were <father's 1st surname> <mother's 1st surname> - in Spain
one usually unconsciously absorbed whether the cousin was likely to
be a child of a paternal aunt, paternal uncle, maternal aunt, maternal
uncle, or an in-law, and therefore understood how they related to each
other as well as to the person introducuing them.
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