XPost: sci.lang, alt.usage.english, alt.proverbs
On 04/06/24 09:01, HenHanna wrote:
If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his
head. If you talk to him in his own language, that goes to his
heart.
At various times I have been in places where my command of the local
language was somewhere between zero and negligible. That must happen to
anyone who has done a bit of travelling. How does one deal with this?
One approach is that of the obnoxious tourist who speaks in English very loudly. (Only English speakers do this, for some reason.) The
assumption, I presume, is that anyone who can't understand him must be deaf.
My own approach is meek. I avoid saying anything at all. Where that is
not possible, I'll at least make sure to work out how to say "Do you
speak English or French?" in the local language, those being the two
languages where I can get by. (Special case: I have worked out how to
say "I don't speak X" for a number of different values of X.) If you
can't speak a language, most people appreciate that you've at least made
an effort.
(Exception: if you say that to a Dutch speaker, you get one of two
responses, in my experience. The first is "Maar U spreekt Nederlands,
meneer". (If you can say that much with a good Dutch accent, you must be
fully fluent in Dutch.) The other is a very offended "Of course I speak English". How dare you suggest that I'm so uneducated that I can't speak
your language?)
One place where I felt completely lost was in Seoul. I knew no Korean,
and nobody there spoke English. (This has since changed, I gather.) I
couldn't even guess what the street signs said, although I did get as
far as figuring out that the writing was a phonetic syllabary. On
initial arrival, I had a card with name of my hotel written in Korean,
and I compared that with the sign on the front of each arriving bus.
From that experience, I have a lot of sympathy for people who are in a
country whose language is totally foreign to them. At least I can read
the street names anywhere in western Europe.
(Exception: the Irish don't believe in giving names to roads, so there
aren't any street signs.)
--
Peter Moylan
[email protected] http://www.pmoylan.org
Newcastle, NSW
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